Should The Man Always Propose?

02-Dec-25 18:00

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A TikTok video with over 8 million views shows user es.tellita preparing to propose to her boyfriend of 14 years, the father of her child. The reactions were split: some called it empowering, others said it was demeaning for a woman to 'beg' a man to marry her.: Should it always be the man who proposes marriage? Does it still matter?

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Produced by: Evening Edition

Presented by: Lee Chwi Lynn, Sharaad Kuttan, Susan Tam

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Categories: culture, Family/Parenting, personal development

Tags: gender dynamics, wedding, marriage, relationships, gender equality,

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